By Maiya Norton for Essence.com



Whether money is tight, the weather is icky, or you're tired of running into the usual suspects, the incentive to go out and party can quickly disappear. Why not save that $12 you're about to put down on a single cocktail and invite your girlfriends over for an intimate, but no less fun, evening? We know, the thought of being home on a Saturday night might be yawn inducing, but the minute you're surrounded by your girls, your mood will lighten.

Think about it: You can swap your crippling heels for comfy flats, and have a real conversation without straining your voice over the loud music. Here are some suggestions for a girls night in. And stick to the script -- no men allowed...

For tips to have the most amazing Girls' Night In, click here...

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Schick Intuition Plus Razor

Ok so now that summer is officially here I can no longer procrastinate when it comes to shaving my legs. It will be 90 plus degrees the rest of the week so it’s just too darn hot to rock pants every day. Last night while I was in Target I ran across the Schick Intuition razor with the moisture bar attached, doing away with the need for shaving cream. I must say I loved using this product. The fact that I was able to skip a step and just run the razor over my legs was pure heaven.

There have been many times when I’ve gotten in the shower prepared to shave my legs and just as soon as I’m soaking wet I realize I left the shaving cream or the new razor head on the other side of the bathroom. I won’t have to worry about that happening anymore. Only one down side to using this so far, it’s easy to miss a spot on your legs. The razor doesn’t provide much lather so it’s kind of difficult to see what hasn’t been shaved.

So for that reason I rate it at a B+. Rating might go up the more I use it… especially when I travel. The all-in-one quality will cut down on packing so many toiletries :)

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Posts are slow this week I'm just going through another one of my "what do I want to do with my life' spells. Sunday night I actually quit my job, well at least in my head for like a split second. Then the thought of my bills and quality of life that I would like to maintain, if not increase, snapped me back to reality.

Why is it so difficult to find what I'm passionate about? The love of my parents, sisters and life experiences has given me a great deal of self confidence to where I truly believe I can do anything. Yet strangely that is whats hold me up, the fact that I know I have so many choices. One minute I'm contemplating my own restaurant the next minute I'm designing home goods.

Recently I made it a goal to get involved in a non-profit as a volunteer, try my hand at fundraising. Never liked fundraising, sucked at selling raffle tickets, too busy sneaking the World Finest chocolate covered almonds to make a good profit, and why would i try to sell someone $10 cookie dough? Well lately in an effort to find my passion I'm all about trying something new. What non-profit? who knows.... any suggestions?

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Viva Laverne would like to wish all the fathers out there a happy father's day. Keep doing a great job at raising your children. A Father's love is so precious and like no other.

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Would you love it so much it's a definite buy or would you leave it right there on the shelf for the next sucker?


Fendi Plexi Clutch - $3,600 (yes you read that right!)



So, would you Love it or Leave it?


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50 ways to use Vaseline

at 6:14 AM Posted by Laverne Labels:

50 great uses for petroleum jelly in under 2 minutes courtesy of Bellasugar.com.

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More great tips on Re-Inventing your life from Melissa Dawn Johnson via Essence.com.









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Summer Soiree

at 9:55 AM Posted by Laverne Labels:



It's that time of year again! Time for backyard parties and impromtu get-togethers with family and friends. Be prepared this year and have some simple party themes on hand to take your party up a notch.

Hostess with the Mostess Featured Party Theme:

Make a splash at your summer party! This party is all about vibrant colors, creative appetizers, perfect-for-summer party decor, and cool, refreshing cocktails like Frozen BACARDI® Mixers Margaritas and Daiquiris!





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Designer Maya Lake is the creator of the stylishly bold clothing line, Boxing Kitten. Conceived while an African American studies major at Wesleyan University. By combining bold tribal prints with classic silhouettes the results are the perfect merger of heritage, awareness and modern style. Love it!




Look for her designs on top Fashionista like Beyonce and Alisha Keys and even Fergie.

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I decided to try flexi-rods on my natural hair this weekend and here's the process and products used by my stylist:


Step 1. washed with Miss Jessie's Creme De La Curl and Creme De La Curl.

Step 2. deep conditioned with Miss Jessie's Recovery Treatment as I sat under a steam dryer.

Step 3. Detangle and curl hair using blue flexi-rods in spiral pattern . The stylist used a little foam setting lotion to help hold the curl and papers for smooth ends.

Step 4. Set under dryer for 1 hour until hair was dry. Curls were a little soft so she lightly spritz them.

Step 5. Separate curls by dividing each curl into 3 to 4 sections. This gives your look volume and allows you to hide any parts created by the rollers. The stylist placed a small about of Miss Jessie's Buttercreme on her fingertips as she was doing this to add moisture.

This is supposed to last 1 week, 2 if I am careful when I sleep. Throughout the week I will sleep with a bonnet cap or satin pillow case. You can finger curl any curls the are getting frizzy by using a light moisturizer. Just be sure your are going in the direction of the curl.

Here's the end result two days later.



I like the outcome, and this is definately a style I will rock in the winter when I can't wash 'n go as much. I also think this style will be cuter as my hair gets longer. I'm loving my natrual hair color in this picture.
As for the products used... I'm not sure what it was, maybe the shampoo, but my scalp is hella dry and flaky.

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I must share with you one of my favorite little 'pick me up' sites I love to visit when I'm in need of inspiration. It's Brand Me by Melissa Dawn Johnson. (http://www.brandmelive.com/)

Melissa Dawn Johnson on what is Brand Me?

What started as a dare to live the life I dreamed became a book called Brand Me. Make Your Mark: Turn Passion into Profit (Ambassador Press).

Brand Me is more than what we do, it is who we are. The book became a blueprint to help anyone become a brand master. The Brand Me movement provides education and empowerment for those who are serious about personal and professional success lifestyle.

Now you and I are a part of a global movement of unstoppable leaders united by one common purpose…to LIVE the life you dream.

In an era of financial uncertainty and change, we are redefining entrepreneurship. Brand Me represents the mind-set of this moment that says in order for me to thrive, I must FIRST be CEO of Brand Me.

Brand Me Live.com is your daily destination for personal and professional transformation. We offer relevant and right-in-time resources for those who are serious about personal and professional success.

Brand Me Live.com is for:
Entrepreneur – Owner of your own enterprise
Intrapreneur – Owner of your own career within a company
Scholarpreneur – Owner of your own dream as you launch into work
Homepreneur – Owner of a home-based business
Anyone in between

No matter where you are today, I dare you to LIVE the life you DREAM.


Looking forward to the journey with you!

Be Brandtastic











Look for more of Melissa's branding tips in the future. We all need to think of how to take ourselves and our ideas to the next level and I believe Melissa has great advice on how to do that.

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The O List for Your Pets

at 4:12 PM Posted by Laverne

OK now that I'm a pet owner I love looking for unique pet products. I ran across O's list for top purchases for your pet. Ozzie (my male Weim) doesn't know it yet but he will be blinged out! ha!


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Beach Ready and Curve Friendly!

at 4:06 PM Posted by Laverne Labels:

I’ve had this list of seventeen reasons why it’s OK to quit on the wall of my office for quite some time. I love it because it’s real talk. Enjoy -

By Motivational Speaker - Veraunda Jackson

1. Quit arguing with people about the same old foolishness! Respect their position and keep it moving!

2. Quit telling people your secrets when you know they are not going to keep them! And if you keep telling them, then quit getting mad when they tell your secrets!

3. Quit trying to pull people on your journey who don't want to travel with you. Either they believe in you and value you...or they don't!

4. Quit complaining about things you can't and won't change!

5. Quit gossiping about other people! Minding our own business should be a full time job!

6. Quit blaming each other for things that in the big picture aren't going to matter three weeks from now! Talk solutions...and then implement them!

7. Quit eating things you know are not good for you! If you can't quit...eat smaller portions!

8. Quit buying things when we know we can't afford them! If you don't have self control, then quit going to the stores! Quit charging things, especially when you don't NEED them!

9. Quit staying in unhealthy relationships! It is not okay for people to verbally or physically abuse you! So quit lying to yourself! It is not okay to stay in the marriage for the children! Ask them and they will tell you that they really would prefer to see you happy and that the misery you and your spouse/partner are living with is affecting them!

10. Quit letting family members rope you into the drama! -Start telling them you don't want to hear it! Quit spreading the drama! Quit calling other relatives and telling them about your cousin or aunt! Go back to #5 minding your own business should be enough to keep you busy!

11. Quit trying to change people! IT DOESN'T WORK! Quit cussing people out when you know that they are just being the miserable and jealous people that they are!

12. Quit the job you hate! Start pursuing your passion. Find the job that fuels your passion BEFORE you quit!

13. Quit volunteering for things that you aren't getting any personal fulfillment from anymore! Quit volunteering for things and then failing to follow through with your commitment!

14. Quit listening to the naysayers! Quit watching the depressing news if you are going to live in the doom and gloom of it all!

15. Quit making excuses about why you are where you are or why you can't do what you want to do!

16. Quit waiting on others to give you the answers...and start finding the answers for yourself! If what you are doing isn't working for you...then quit it!

17. Quit settling and start making your dreams a reality!- Quit being afraid and START LIVING YOUR LIFE! CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT! If you want something different than what you have had in the past...you must quit doing what you have done before and DO something different! JUST QUIT IT ...... and START DOING something to create the experience you want!

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A designer you should know!

at 7:32 AM Posted by Laverne Labels:


Tracy Reese ranks as one of the fashion industry's most successful African-American women whose realm is not relegated to the runway. In a business where few designer labels seem to make it past their fifth anniversary, Reese has two clothing lines, TR and Plenty, which have been sold at Nordstrom, Saks Fifth Avenue, Bloomingdale's, and other top retailers since the mid-1990s.

Her company's sales topped $12 million in 2003, and it launched a Plenty-label home line that same year and a footwear collection the following. Reese has an eye for what women will buy. "I don't want to design a skirt just because a skirt is needed to go with a particular jacket," she told Joy Duckett Cain in Essence. "The skirt itself has to make you want to buy it."


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LOOKSIES!

Sunday, June 6, 2010 at 5:58 PM Posted by Laverne Labels:

What can I say, I LOVE PURPLE and I LOVE THIS DRESS!




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My husband and I purchased two gorgeous Weimaraner puppies this past Thursday. Our boy, Ozzie, and girl, Sasha, are absolutely adorable. However the evening we got them home we notice Sasha was not wanting to eat dinner. Ozzie was all over it of course. Well today is Saturday and it seems like Sasha's health has gotten extremely worse and I'm afraid we might loose her. She won't eat, she is consistently vomiting and they both have worms in their stool. We've gone to the vet and got a litany of medications but she is still weak. I just can't believe after all these years of me wanting a dog, just days after I get her it's looking like we might loose her.



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OK this is getting ridiculous. I've listened to this song about five times today while sitting at my desk. Every time it comes on I just can't keep still!

Monday Morning --Melonie Fiona

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I’ve noticed a lot of women are struggling with keeping hair breakage at bay. I cannot stress enough the importance of pumping your hair full of moisture. When hair is moisturized it has a great elasticity and has a greater ability to stretch. Ever wonder what that popping sound is when you are combing your hair? It’s your hair snapping or breaking and it’s not withstanding the strokes of the comb.

Women with ethnic hair, meaning hair that is wavy to kinky in texture and naturally dry, can generally combat breakage if they are able to grasp the moisture/protein balance. I recently ran across a great article that really breaks down when and why you need a moisturizing conditioner and when your hair needs protein (often called re-constructors). The author includes great scenarios to help illustrate what you should look for when assessing your hair. If you've ever had a question about conditioning hair I highly recommend you click on the link below.

Learn more about hair conditioning regimens.

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Admittedly I was never a mani/pedi kind of girl until I started dating my now husband that introduced me to the practice of up keeping my nails (He did the same for my eye brows). In his 'oh so adorable way' he insisted that I let him treat me to the spa... he created a monster. Funny thing is, he has yet to complain about that being a line item in our household budget. You think I can slip in shoe shopping too??

Anyway, Summer is around the corner and it's time to get back into the swing of things when it comes to open toe shoes. And that doesn't mean you have to run out to your nearest nail shop. I'm still not 100 % on someone touching my feet but I love the way I feel so feminine afterwards. At home pedicures are often times just as effective as the ones done is a salon. With a little of your favorite salt or sugar scrub, a pumice stone and over night application of Vaseline incubated with your socks your feet will be ready to sport a beautiful summer sandal. Since I'm not a big fan of white tips I love, love topping of a pedicure with a pop of color on my toes. Here are some trends this Spring/Summer. Caution! be sure to apply a base coat to prevent staining of your nail beds.



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Again, I can't stress enough how great The Alchemist is in telling the fable of a boy who follows his dream. I encourage you all to read this story and try to apply it's principles to your life. Today's quote:


“When each day is the same as the next, it’s because people fail to recognize the good things that happen in their lives every day that the sun rises.” page 28


So count each day as all joy, live your life to the fullest and step out on faith today and try something new. God has bless us to see another day.

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Sheena Foster is a 28 year old native of New Orleans, LA and currently resides in Newark, NJ.





Describe your work.
For nearly five years, I’ve worked as a union representative where I negotiated and enforced labor agreements in California, Texas and New Jersey until the lost of my job in April 2009. Coincidentally, those experiences lead me to back to a life of volunteerism, philanthropy, social activism and social entrepreneurship. I now spend my days working as a freelance research consultant on a range of global and domestic projects in the area of economic, social and cultural rights which affords me opportunity to travel abroad and have a social impact by fusing my passions and expertise. When not working abroad, I am working with non-profits as a volunteer consultant and independently planning community events in the areas of education, sustainability and health care. This month, I will launch community forums on “What the Health Care Reform Bill mean to me?” where I will have experts break down the bill for everyday people and answer questions. Next month, I will launch a series on Sustainability in Urban Communities and the Green Movement.


What is your life's Mantra?
Never, never, never give up by Winston Churchill and the Purpose of Life is to Live a Life of PURPOSE.

When or what was your eye opening experience that led you to your passion?
Being born and raised in an urban environment, very humble and meager beginnings to teenage parents who are not college educated in an area of extreme poverty and being able to excel personally and professionally because of having supportive people in my life has been my beacon of hope. It’s instilled in me a sense of obligation to help those who don’t have the resources and access to help themselves.

What is your simple pleasure?
When work was stressful, a spa day of pampering was a monthly ritual for me. Now, I treat myself by treating someone else to spa days and other opportunity to feel beautiful on the inside and out. My greatest satisfaction is to see people happy and smiling.

Describe yourself in one word.
When choosing one word to describe myself, I would have to say that I am like a Lotus. Lotus flowers are beautiful and have strong symbolic ties to many Asian religions. The lotus flower starts as a small flower down at the bottom of a pond in the mud and muck. It slowly grows up towards the water’s surface gradually moving towards sunlight. Once it comes to the surface of the water, the lotus flower begins to blossom and turn into a beautiful flower. Which is symbolic of my life's courses of how I’ve overcome the muddy waters of life’s obstacles and have blossomed into a beautiful being?


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